Looking back, I’ve been in several conflicts and disappointments last year. Because of that, I can do recall how many times I got angry and lose my temper. It was stressful. Some relationships were tarnished. Good thing I was able to address those misunderstandings and revived the once damaged relationship.
With that said, my happiness goal in 2017 was not fully achieved. Thus, I will continue my quest for a happy life this year and beyond.
This year, I will continue to nurture a peaceful, harmonious relationship with my family, friends and colleague. I will be more patient and calm. I know it is difficult to hold our temper when things go wrong but I will try my best to handle things without agitation.
2 things I want to change or avoid:
- I will avoid yelling to my children. There’s one situation last month that hit my heart so hard. I reprimanded Thea for a particular misdeed. You know what, Yohan ran upstairs and refused to clean up before bedtime. And then I asked why, he replied, Ayaw ko ng nag-aaway na pamilya (I dont’ want a family who are fighting). It must be something for a seven year old to say that.
- I will avoid conflicts with co-workers. I vow to maintain a harmonious relationship with my colleauges. I am grateful that our department hired new staff last year. Aside from additional manpower, I am happy that they are all amazingly intelligent and kind. Swerte talaga pag mababait ang nakukuhang staff. Malamang mahahawaan nila ako ng kabaitan at maraming pasensya para iwas pakikipagtalo na hahaha.